Mocha Monologues

A delicious blend of dark roasted thoughts, with a hint of sugar and spice.

Monday, July 30, 2007

Monday Nothingness

Monday Nothingness
Today is Monday. It's a pretty good Monday. Today, my hubby turns 32! Happy Birthday, Hubby! I think we're going to Buffalo Wild Wings tonight to celebrate and I made him a chocolate cake with Bailey's Irish Cream Buttercreme Frosting. YUM!

So, so, so many things have been happening in the last few weeks! It's been so good.First, Chris has been asked to "candidate" at a church for a youth pastor position. This will take place on August 18th & 19th. I'm sad we have to wait 3 weeks for this to take place, but time will go quickly, I think. We're both very excited about this - we would move there, and the houses are cheaper and it's such a quaint little community. Can't wait!

Second, I have re-discovered the root of my stomach problems, which makes me sound like an old fart, but literally, my stomach hurts almost 24 hours a day. I was so sick of it that I went back to the clinic's website where I used to go in the Cities, and was reminded how I haven't been following the food guidelines outlined there for my particular ailments. So, I'm altering my diet drastically, and things have been much better since doing so! I'm so glad...I don't know why I was so stupid about what I was eating. I guess I still have that teenage mentality that I'm impervious to physical maladies!

I also discovered the root of my health insurance issues and have hopefully corrected this - which makes me more happy than it really should make a person. Insurance is such a crazy thing - all these policies and paperwork and details. I'm just so glad to have it (hopefully) straightened out!!! WOO HOO!

On a slightly sadder note, I have discovered that the end talbes that I really, really wanted from Bed, Bath, & Beyond are no longer in stock and probably will not come back in stock!!! I'm so ticked! If I'd gone the first day of the sale, I would not be in this pickle! However, there is a silver lining - they offer the same little tables UNFINISHED, so, technically, we could buy the little guys and just stain them.I had an incredible weekend. It was so fun and relaxing.

Friday I took advantage of TJMaxx's current clearance sale and found several items of clothing that I love. My favorite find was a Juicy Couture sweatshirt for $24.99. It's pink and has pink chiffon coming out the sleeves, and gorgeous embroidery on the whole back of the shirt. I love it, and consider it the find of the summer. I also bought a really big letter "B" for our wall! It's really cool - probably 20" tall, black and is currently living above our front door. Love it. Friday night we went to Thunder Road or Thunder Alley or whatever the mini-golf place is called in town here. We went with our friends from church for a going away party for Kevin and Danae. They officially moved to Montana on Saturday. I say "officially," because Danae has been there for 3 weeks, and Kevin's been there for 2, but they just now packed up all their stuff and left us. They bought a huge house in Glendive, their hometown. Anyway, we mini-golfed, and I got TWO HOLES IN ONE!!!!!!!! I've never gotten a hole in one in my life! Then, Trish and Cally and I went on the bumper cars, which were so much newer and cooler than the bumper cars were in my day - they had huge inner tubes around the outside where you bumped each other. So fun. I had blast. And the rest of the group rode the go-karts. We went back to Katie and Aaron's for snacks and dessert. It was a fun night.

Saturday was packing and in the afternoon, I got about 100 pages of Harry Potter and the Dealthy Hallows behind me. Saturday night we went to a play at Trollwood - "Thoroughly Modern Millie." It was absolutely fabulous! It was high school students performing and I thought they were better than the musical I'd seen at the Chanhassen Dinner Theater! It was so fun. Sunday we went to church at the church Chris is candidating at. We loved it - it was so affirming to realize that the church where he might get hired is a really good church that we both really liked. The rest of the day I spent reading more Harry Potter - got another 100 pages done. I also baked Chris' cake, and made some Almond Tea.

I also found out something slightly disturbing. Apparently the trees in North Fargo are infested with aphids and when you park under them you always get little tiny sticky spots, which I always thought were sap. Trish, however, told us that those little sticky spots are aphid poop. So, as we were sitting outside under the trees at Trollwood, watching the musical, you could see the little drops of aphid poop landing on you - good times!

My parents are coming to town on Thursday. I have to rearrange my schedule a little, but it shouldn't be a problem. They were going to come the weekend Chris is candidating, so we had to reschedule.

A week from Wednesday, I leave for Denver. Another conference. Should be good. I guess.

I believe this brings me to the end of my ramblings.

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Happy, Happy Thursday

Today is Thursday and I'm leaving work early today. My friend Cass's birthday celebration at work (my old office) is this afternoon and I'm going to stop by and share in the festivities. She'll be 27. 27 was my favorite year so far.

This has been a good week. Monday afternoon was yarn shopping at our local yarn store which happens to be going out of business - sad. Then my Naughty Knitty friends and I had a potluck supper, which was fabulous, and proceded to watch Aeon Flux whilst we knitted. Good times. I really liked that movie, even though I'm not sure I understood everything. I also discovered that I'd made a mistake on the sweater I'm knitting, so most of the evening was spent frogging the mistake and figuring out how to make it better.

Tuesday wasn't particularly eventful. I don't even remember much about it.

Wednesday was a very good informal interview supper for hubby. This is very pleasing. He looked so cute - I bought him a new polo shirt that's got big brown and blue horizontal stripes, and he's tan and he just looked so cute! Then I went to Bible study and talked about God the Judge. That was good, too.

Today I couldn't get out of bed.

Tomorrow I have to work on my day off, but at least I'll get fed while I work. And when I say "work," I mean, sit in a strategic planning meeting. Those are a little difficult to sit through when you're still a very new employee and you're not sure how everything goes.

I got a flier from Bethel Sem on Monday, advertising some new certificate programs that they're going to be offering in the next year. One of them is Sexuality, Wholeness, and Community. I'm seriously considering taking it. It's 6 classes, one at a time for 18 months. Most of it can be done at a distance, although I would have to spend 1 week on campus, 4 different times during these 18 months. That's not so bad, but I'd rather use my vacation days for something else! Maybe we can work something out.

I just heard one of my coworkers say, "I think I'm leaving."

Me too! Me too!!!

Friday, July 13, 2007

Big Fat PROBLEM

I just had to retire ANOTHER pair of pants. These happen to be pants, that, when purchased exactly 3 years ago, were pretty much too big, and I actually had to pack them away for a period of time when they were so big they were falling off. Now, I can barely get them over my ass.
Damn pants.
Damn ass.
Damnit.

Monday, July 02, 2007

Today...

I will start respecting my husband instead of tolerating him.

I will speak words of affirmation to my husband, instead of fear.

I will give my husband praise at every point where it is even slightly due.

I will pray for my love for my husband to grow each and every moment of every day.

I will ask God that the bitterness that grew inside of me for so long be replaced with compassion and humbleness.

I will not let my heart be offended, but will pray for an unoffendable heart so that my love does not grow cold.

I will strive to to be healthy rather than be right.

I will embrace the life I live, rather than wishing for it to change.

I will look for joy in my life.

I will not stop doing these things till I am made perfect in Christ.


~vow of a wife recently humbled. by heather. 7/02/07.